The goals for each family are dictated by the problems they present and by the nature of
their structural dysfunction. Although every family is unique, there are common problems
and typical structural goals. Most important of the general goals for families is the creation of an effective hierarchical structure. Parents are expected to be in charge, not to relate as equals to their children. Another common goal is to help parents function together as a cohesive executive subsystem. When there is only one parent, or when there are several children, one or
more of the oldest children may be encouraged to become a parental assistant. But this child’s
needs must not be neglected, either.