I really like someone, I have for several years. She's a thai girl. We were in an actual relationship for a long while, but now she's off to school right now, and we don't talk much. I have strong feelings for her, but she seems so distant lately, like she's no longer interested in me. A few days ago she kept talking about this nurse that she had met at school and how she really likes her, and when I tell her that she should be happy and be with her, she says "no no no I like you more!". I want to believe her, but earlier when we were talking she simply disappeared on me without a trace and refused to speak to me. I don't know exactly what she wants from me anymore. The distance between us is really big, and she knows that I don't have the expenses to be there in THailand with her, and I know because of her schooling that she can't come here with me, and even if she wanted to come here I know that the process is so difficult and so expensive that she couldn't afford it. That's the long answer. The short answer is that we act like we're in a relationship, but I think she's too scared and too attatched to tell me it's through, and I don't want to hurt her by telling her that it is, so we just keep going in circles.