I just got a mac mini to try and run through my macbook (have a post up looking for help with this) but without previously setting up the mini I can't vnc, remote view/control, or anything until I get access to a monitor or maybe just a keyboard... What I'm trying to get at is, the store I purchased the mini from didn't charge me for all the ram I got, I got two 4g sticks instead of 2 more 2g sticks (to match what was in the machine), thus I now have extra ram which led me to this same question/post and am feeling comfortable enough after reading this to go ahead with the 1333 install. Late '08 macbook so it's 1067 and hopefully all will go well, if not I'll be back asking, so thanks in a possible future!