ค้นพบ meaning is a period of yearning, searching, and discovery. One yearns for the lost person(s) or assumed state of ความตามปกติ, searches for some type of normalcy to reenter the everyday living or working situation, and then discovers the meaning of the loss or losses. Meaning to each of us is individual unique, and personal. But if one can find meaning, one seems to adjust more easily. Some find meaning in religion, some in support or supportive groups, and some in going inward. Some may never find the answer to the questions "Why did they have to die? or "Why am I surrounded by so much death?" However, even if these questions are not answered, one may find a new meaning to life-to the present and to the future.