Dear ?Crazy : The American Psychology Association reported that 40 % to 60 % of
men who abused their female partners also abused their children. Is this the kind of
atmosphere in which you want your children raised ? Your husband’s refusal to seek
marriage counseling indicates that he has ho intention of changing his pattern. It’s bad
enough that he takes his hostility out on you daily. But for him to take pleasure in
making your daughter cry is sick.
Please don’t let your husband’s refusal to go for counseling deter you from getting
professional help to aid you in deciding how best to protect yourself and your
children. Cruel word erode the self-esteem like the ocean eats away the shore. And
for children to be exposed to it day after day can cause lifelong damage.