TABLE MANNERS At dinner party, the hostess will tell you which chair isyours. Aman holds the chair for the woman on his right. At home or in a restaurant, the table set with cutlery airanged in order of uso "from the outside in". When you have finished a meal, place the wife and fork together on the right of the plate If a spoon or fork is dirty, ask the server to bring another in its place Wipins it with a napkin is impolite. When the server serves a course, you should thank ber. To refuse a course, say "No, thank you' Don't put your elbows on the table-while you are eating. food is too hot, never spit it out. Take a drink of cold water and try to swallow it.