I made a mistake for a long time. I was always shy, i always did what anyone asked me to do because I didn't want to hurt their feeling, and though I knew I was being taking advantage of by relatives, friends, siblings. I just put up with it. I always worried about other people's feelings and didn't want them to think of me differently if I had just told them off instead. I was to nice! I was the type that I would help and never ask nor accept anything in return. If I had say $20.00 in my pocket,if my brother,mom,sister or who ever needed it i would give them my last $20.00, and didn't care if they paid me back or not,I like to help people, that's just the type of person I am. I would still do it. They're my family. I 'm still that same person but now that I'm grown now and matured. I don't let anyone walk all over me anymore or take advantage I speak up more instead of staying quite and don't much for anyone anymore like rediculious stuff. I don't mind helping anybody out but if it's something stupid like their just being lazy, I don't do it. I've learned my lesson. :0) Well there ya have it! Bye! :0