I thought the most important thing of caring children is the way how do we treat them, I need the reasons for his decision. I mean we have to teach them how to decide by themselves and we are the one who is explain which one is right thing and which one is wrong. if they do the good things we should give rewards to them.we have to do the best what we can for them, take care, teach,give love and a good model. I believe they will be good an adult.