Hi Som, I am so sad that we both are unhappy at this time. I'm also sad you think I don't understand Thai Wedding. Of course I looked at many Thai weddings some give a lot of money, a lot of Gold and some give a little money a little gold, whatever the family has that they can give, every family is different. Maybe you are right, maybe your father not sell you but the money he asks is a lot for us at this time. I explained to your Aunt that I'd be willing to pay your fathers price but to let us marry now and pay some money now and pay the rest before end of year. I will try to find out how much I can give by April before your birthday. I wish your father would understand that if I'm a Thai man I wouldve saved money for many years and been easy to pay. But I'm not a Thai man and I have not saved my whole life. Only a short time ago you and me were two different people on the other side of the world with two seperate hearts. Now we are together with one heart and one love for each other. I'm so afraid that if you're father does not sympathize with us, that our love will fade and we will be two seperate people again not knowing each other in the future. I don't want to give up our dream or each other but if our father not let us marry soon our life together will end and my heart will be lost. I will wait to hear from you again and see what you think. Still for now your husband to be, love, Timmy.