Well dear Pu I thk it is very personal this choice.
But talking for myself. For my parents in their time it was wrong.
Everyone said.
But when I was student times changed. And for most young people but their parents too and even the church it was not so much a big issue.
So for many they had seks before marriage.
And I had seks too before marriage. Did not consider that wrong. But i Always liked
persons try to be pure. Monks and so on. I am sincere and serious,
Peter