We all make mistakes, but perfectionist have a hard time forgiving mistakes. Instead, they tend to judge harshly. If you’re a perfectionist, you don’t forgive yourself when you make a mistake and you have a hard time forgiving others. Your expectations of yourself and others are unrealistically high.
If you’re a perfectionist and you’re trying to lose weight, you may be setting weight-loss goals for yourself that are impossibly high. You may be setting unachievable weight and fitness goals for yourself. All you’re doing by setting such impossible goals is setting yourself up for failure.Your irrational beliefs about never being thin enough, or being “bad” for not eating perfectly are simply wrong. You need to let go of those beliefs. You are probably guilty of all-or-nothing thinking; you view everything as black or white, right or wrong, with no allowance for gray areas. In a perfectionist’s mind, “I ate chocolate” translates to “I failed to follow a healthy diet.” But this problem lies more with your own attitude than it with your eating behavior. You can eat chocolate and still follow a healthy diet if you’re eating normal portion sizes and if you change your thinking from “It’s wrong to eat chocolate” to “How can I fit a little chocolate into my day?”
We all make mistakes, but perfectionist have a hard time forgiving mistakes. Instead, they tend to judge harshly. If you’re a perfectionist, you don’t forgive yourself when you make a mistake and you have a hard time forgiving others. Your expectations of yourself and others are unrealistically high.
If you’re a perfectionist and you’re trying to lose weight, you may be setting weight-loss goals for yourself that are impossibly high. You may be setting unachievable weight and fitness goals for yourself. All you’re doing by setting such impossible goals is setting yourself up for failure.Your irrational beliefs about never being thin enough, or being “bad” for not eating perfectly are simply wrong. You need to let go of those beliefs. You are probably guilty of all-or-nothing thinking; you view everything as black or white, right or wrong, with no allowance for gray areas. In a perfectionist’s mind, “I ate chocolate” translates to “I failed to follow a healthy diet.” But this problem lies more with your own attitude than it with your eating behavior. You can eat chocolate and still follow a healthy diet if you’re eating normal portion sizes and if you change your thinking from “It’s wrong to eat chocolate” to “How can I fit a little chocolate into my day?”
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