Mmmmm .. Fair enough ... I understand how u feel ... I am very up front about my intentions and I don't want to hurt someone and you have obviously been hurt already .. So probably best I don't keep going .. Would love to have some fun and relax and massage you .. But it would not be fair to you if you want something else ... I never give anyone the hope of something that just isn't there at this time .... If it develops it does, if it doesn't it doesn't ... U can't find out by being over cautious and never going out again or you will never get anywhere ... But I won't push this coz I can see you are too scared to get hurt again and I don't want that either.... X