Yes, but I confirm change it because I don't like you complain me that "That's why me don't have boyfriend. Because I'm too stubborn. Im not act like lady."
You have the intention and effort for the job and your fishing much more.
but For other you have intention and effort be very low. There is no gf live with you for a long time as well.
I think that you can not change. So I change myself because I love you. I don't want you to leave me.