ell, what am I looking for in a woman? I think age and appearance are important, but even more important could be about shared thinking about life in general. This means shared interests, have discussions and laugh end enjoy together. Also be able to have disagreements in good faith and to compromise is something I am looking for in a woman. My strong belief is that a relationship should be equal for both parties and that it can even be nurturing to not think alike all the time, but that all issues can be solved in good faith.