Unlike a new piece of consumer electronics, life does not come with a users' manual. Learning to live can be a haphazard process, which is why most people are driven by their need for survival and go about life just reacting to what happens to them. They do that while engaging in relationships that do not have clear boundaries and are not in alignment with their core values. Some people have a chance to study the human sciences, and thus they may learn the intricacies of human behavior.