My questions are. What did you do? Did you do it with love in your heart? Do you regret what you did?
There is a saying that I keep in my heart. "Leap and the net will appear". This gives me the courage to take risks. Like joining TLL. Like trying to build a new relationship at 62. Like spending 8 months teaching in Cambodia.
The net always appears. But sometimes I don't see it until it is too late and I fall and fail. But I don't regret failing as much as I would regret not trying.