First of all, their use of the words differently; For example, the event during that I eat the buffet to very heavy. It makes me fat up obviously that I'm not self-confident, so I ask advice from my friend he's homosexual. He will answer me honestly, and to tell the reason to carefully, what does he think? Cause he thought so? It makes me appreciate on his answer, makes me want to stop to eat the buffet and lose weight down immediately. It is unlike the women, if I ask advice from her will answer a roundabout way, because she was afraid that I feel bad. Which is why that I'm sure herself not as fat as a friend said. So, I can eat the buffet on comfortably.