Furthermore the nurses notice that if the NRMP has been difficult for the children, they seldom accept gifts. Occasionally the gifts are also seen as bribes by the children. In situations like these, nurses provide the parent with gifts so that the children can receive them when they are at home and are feeling more secure. The act of bribing is, according to the nurses, done by nurses and parents, a procedure that will enable them to reach the children and carry out the NRMP more smoothly: And so we're bribing them quite a lot with ice cream and sweets and little things like that.