I know... I understand....for everything need money...I never have bad experience only now with my "X" wife... and because she was very good before I don't understand what was the problem???? now I must think about everything what can happen in the future with maybe somebody I stay in future. I can not understand how some nice girl can change after 9 years, ruin her life and life for her son. Sure I have little problem about money because I need save money now... but I have BIG problem to understand what happen because if I have new life with somebody like you... I don't want that happen again.