At the end of my visit, after I leave, I want you to be sure that I am the one for you. If you have second thoughts or doubts, I want you to share them with me once I get back home. Your happiness is very important to me. So after my visit, you must share any concerns with me. I would hate for you to marry me if it wasn't exactly what you wanted. I would hate to see you miserable. I want you to be very happy.