Hi Nok. How are you. Fancy your husband leaving you for a bad lady. l think you are probably better off without him. It was going to happen sooner or later. It is a shame about your daughter not liking men. Perhaps one day she will get confidence enough to go out with a man if she finds the right one. New Zealand is very much like Australia but not as hot. The laws are very similar and we are only a couple of hours away by plane. I have just about finished my christmas shopping for the children and then I have to do the worst part and that is all the wrapping and make sure the right child gets the right presents.