My approach is this: We would talk for a few weeks...to build up emotional connection..to see if we are in the same page. If we can't even get along on the phone..how will we get along in person...the answer.is ..we won't. I will not meet someone unless it end in a relationship....period. I wouldn't be meeting a complete stranger when we meet because we would have this amazing conversation to build upon our love. If you want to keep on dating loser and someone who doesn't have their act together and waste your time and emotion on someone who isn't worthy of your love then you go right ahead. I, on the other hand will not. I will only meet if once we will meet we will become a couple.
Oh, and I also need a beautiful hair with perfect tits and a great ass. What? I’m still a guy…Would it help if I said I’m a good cook?