You shouldn't put with an abusive partner. There is never an acceptable excuse for a partner to hurt you with words or actions. You don't have to tolerate any verbal pr physical abuse. You should not accept common excuses like "i just had a bad day at wor!," "i'm under a lot of stress!," "i'm really sorry. I promise i won't do it agsin!" You should think carefully before giving a person a secod chance.