Although some parents anticipated an easing of their concerns over time, this did not occur. Instead, concerns shifted from their own management to teens: "I couldn't wait for her to get older and understand and be responsible. I thought these were going to be the good years. Now I'm thinking when she was younger it was a lot easier" (Family 11, Mother). Another father said, "As he gets older, in one sense it makes it better, but in the other sense, he's on his own. He makes dumb decisions like every teenager does" (Family 14, Father). Parents were also frustrated by teens' deviations from established management: "she just wanted to stop taking care of herself. I'm like how can you just stop taking care of yourself?" (Family six, Mother).