People say :: I stopped explaining myself when I realized that people only understand from their level of perception..
Yepp, Dude, It's so exhausted when you try to explain everything that now what are you thinking, because the more you try to make understand you, the more problem you get yourself into, is better to remain silent, because is as well part of a speech..
So, I always remember this advise, because I always get so upset when things get too heated so I just word everything and realize after that I should have kept my mouth shut! The other person don't care. That's when I should just walk away and stay away from them. In a perfect world that would happen but not in this one...
And, you will understand and allow that you can't make everyone gets everything that what are you doing...
But what if we want to receive sympathy. Nobody sympathetic nowadays?? We just have to be resilient and endure whatever happened to come across our lives?? We are the only ones that can help ourselves, right??? ... Nope, It's okay to think like this but when you want to get sympathy you will give it by yourself first!!....
So, Don't waste your time with explanations. People will hear what they want to hear ..