Your partner should respect your opinions, decisions, morals, and values. He or should support you and encourage you to reach your goals and dreams
If your partner has a problem with alcohol or drugs, you had better not believe that you'll be able to change his or her ways
You ought to have time for yourself, you family, and your friends. Your partner shouldn't be possessive and take up all your time and energy
If you can't trust your partner, lf you think that he/she lies or cheats, or if he-she makes you feel unsafe, then you'd better listen to your instincts