Something is very different, you have changed and I have changed.
As you know and we discussed, our separation started months back with you having issues with your son, I told you from the very beginning that my children come first in my life and I would never expect to come before your son and family. Your issues with your son, his father, your mother and your fathers family seem very big and intertwined with your life, I cannot interfere but standing by and talking with you about your problems seem to be futile, I am a solutions oriented person, so day to day of the same problems with changing anything seems crazy, I can’t do it.
Financially, you seem to not understand saving money, taking care of money for times when things get difficult; you have your motorbikes, high credit card debt a more expensive iPhone that me and other things you choose to by, I have my commitments and am doing my best to take care of them.
Problems continue with your father and family, not that you shouldn’t talk about it but the things we talked about before with your son, father, ex-husband are not the way you act when there are problems, that is your choice and maybe the way you like it, but I cannot find any happiness with you or for you this way.
Lately, you started talking about a ‘old friend’ (male) for some ‘work' you are talking to and seeing but you never wrote or called to talk with me about this! ok.
You just recently talked to me about leaving your hometown and going to ‘work’ but you were telling me that you already were talking to other people about, not me! ok.
I am a foreign man but told you in the beginning and when we had prior problems that I should be and expected Thai culture and Thai respect in a relationship. Please look at yourself to find the answers of your unhappiness and difficulties.
I don’t not have any anger I was just sad that there doesn’t seem to be a way to come back together with the way things separated and fell apart.
I am not perfect but I did try my best to support you and communicate with you, I am continuing with my life and hope you can find happiness in yours.