She had grandiose dreams of broadcasting/television and of being a pop icon. When I gently and tactfully suggested she seek a solid base for her future and select a viable career it became world war 3 for no reason and she broke up with me over it despite no past mistreatment or wrongdoing with her also despite the length of time we had dated.
Shortly after she started seeing someone else and before long she had bruises and handprints all up and down her arms. She had long sleeves on to hide them as well as makeup on her face to hide a bruise. Concerned I asked when I noticed the bruises on her arms and she revealed the rest and showed me the marks but lied saying he didn't mean it and it was an accident. Similar incidents happened over and over. I also inadvertently ended up in the middle when someone came to me about him cheating. Here he had a different GF that he had been seeing all along and was using her. She found out and she told me it was ok she was ok with it. I asked why and she had said because he made her feel special.
Basically it boiled down to abuse and cheating/lying was ok because he bulllshited her into believing some fuzzy warm crap and my being realistic was not ok because I was not emotional nor a liar.
I've learned people ask for the truth but expect warm fuzzy lies.