Susan,our youngest sister,was absent. she had not been invited to the funeral or to the reading of Father's will. Her name was left out of the notice that had appeared in the south china morning post. Joseph Tsi-rung Yen,it read,dearly loved husband of Jeanne Prosperi Yen,father of Lydia,Gregory,Edgar,Jame and Adeline,died peacefully on 13 May 1998