So you want honesty? Well here is full blunt honesty, hope you can handle the truth and that you take the time to read it and think about it.
After having read many profiles here on TF, or at least the ones that people have taken the time to fill in some details. LOL There is a common theme, only want message from honest and sincere for true love... I must ask are you being honest to yourself? I will tell you honestly that if you really want to meet an honest guy that is not playing a game on here, then first you must befriend them. The "good guys" must feel that you actually desire them for good reasons other than support of you and your families. They will want to get to know you, the real you not the persona of good girl who will treat her man so good. The bad boys that you so despise when they see a profile that says "I want a good man that will take care of me..." see that as someone that they can show a little affection and get what they want and move on to the next victim.