When someone feels backed into a corner, they will throw other things that are not pertaining to the situation to make them feel better about it. The relationship fell apart, I get that, but she should've just bowed out. But no she blasted all your personal things all over the net. That's what happens. She awas talking about "karma" the other day, I saw it. She blames things on hookers and diseases, but what really happened to start that. Just can't be in a fun happy relationship then all of a sudden not. Door swings both ways yo. She must've messed up too, but shields it off.. And a "friend" calls into his work? That's fucked up. Its one thing if yous guys didn't work out and a complete other to involve his job. A lot of us havr know Brendan longer than her and you've been working really hard for what you have. She just floats around trying to feel accepted. Believe me. I know the feeling. But to involve his professional side, is straight low. You got this Brendan!! Take care and good luck!