Isn't this cheating, lol! My proudest moment was when I realized I had more power than my molestor. As a child, I was molested by my father. It was completely devastating to me and made me feel so bad about myself. I had no self worth, no self esteem. My mom made me feel like it was my fault all the time, that was the reason she divorced him. Not because he was molesting me, but that he was starting to moleste my middle sister. When I got married, I had a terrible relationship with my husband and daughter. I didnt' know how to trust anyone. But slowly, after much patience and alot of counsleing, I came around to that. One day, I was in prayer just trying to get to hear something other than my crazy self speaking, it came to me. I had the power to change me, not him. I could continue on the path that i was on and lose everythng or i could love and trust and really be honest with myself and things started to change. Now, after a long time, i love myself. And things have been really good. THings turned out for me. I have a wonderful 14 year old daughter that loves and adores me and i love and adore her. and i've been married for 15 years to a wonderful man. I don't know what happend to my "dad" and really, I don't care. He's a piece of garbage that went on to molest other children. I have wonderful friends and a wonderful job. I bet that's more than he can say. And as for me and my mom, things are still tough. we get along, but not really as well as we would like. that too will work itself out, all in time. Good luck to you! : )