I must confess that I am awe struck by the interest in me from, in my view attractive women age 30 and upwards. I scares me, because I have very little experience in dating and I do not want to hurt anyone by taking up their time or giving them false hopes. Therefore, I hope you will understand that it is with some trepidations that I am writing to you since I already am in conversation with a few nice women.
Let me begin with tell you something about myself. As you can see from my profile, I am 58 years old and please do not run away screaming when I regretfully have to say that I am a resent widow. It is a resent thing. So why I am I here, simply for the reason that I do not want to live the rest of my life alone, but then you may ask why am I looking for my potential soul mate from Thailand? It may seem odd but I wanted to meet someone that primarily by looks would not remind me of my late wife. I have no illusion of that this is going to be simple, I mean finding a soul mate and then she and I falling in love, but if I do not try I am sure you would agree that the chances are nil. I would consider myself a kind and gentle man that should it be you would do his best by you. I may not be good looking but I have easy to smile and like to view the day in a positive manner. I work as a lorry driver delivering food etcetera to a mayor supermarket chain here in Denmark. I live in a big flat 4½ room not counting kitchen and bathroom close to the centrum of Copenhagen; actually, you can easily walk to all the places in the city from where I live. As a truck driver, I work long hours but I would not say that I am rich. Right now I am busy cleaning up in the flat it need to be painted, not to mention the kitchen that is in a dire need of a tender hand, but that is a major job that I need to save up some money before I tackle it. My interests: I am planning to take up riding after a two years break and I would like to take up photography again, that is black & white where you develop it yourself, I like to go for walks, go to museums but really need someone to do it with. I like to go for bike rides, Denmark and Copenhagen is set up nicely for that with lots of bicycle paths all around. I view myself to be open for new input and culture but I must confess my knowledge of Thai culture is limited, to put it politely, so please forgive me if I should blunder inadvertently. Key words that would describe me, like to discuss history, culture, politics (i.e. what going on in the world), like most kind of food, the only major exemptions would be mussels and that kind of seafood. I like to travel and have actually been to china in 1982. Would you like to know me then please feel free to respond and ask any question you want?’
As I said I hope that I might be lucky to find the one and only, but I am also very much aware that it might not be easy. Here are many reasons for that and I very much concerned over what my future wife is giving up. Moving from one place to another is a big step but moving to a foreign country whit a language you do not speak and a culture that is probably more different from your than I can imagine is a giant leap of faith. Before I began looking for a future Thai wife I gave it some thoughts to how I should interact, and I thought I would begin a relationship by being a pen pal and have conversations on Skype. This way whomever I meet and I could meet up find common ground and see if we got on. This way no one would get hurt if the relation did not develop into deeper affection. Once the relationship had developed into mutual interest and passionate conversation then it would be time for me to visit and if that went well and she was willing then she could come and visit me here in Denmark to see if living abroad was what she liked and wanted. You see I am not rich by Danish standards and even though I can support a wife, it is also the unfortunate fact that unless my future wife has a work there will be very little money over for all the small things in life that makes living fun, like visits back to family in Thailand. That was all the gritty stuff now something about me I like to read books, and I can cook, nothing fancy, but the basics I can manage, I am not shy of doing domestic chores like washing dishes, do the laundry etc. I like to go for walks but not alone, I am not a big fan of watching sports on TV. I am not the sort of person that is looking for a young wife, and I would consider around 30 the absolute minimum age. My future wife may or may not be a single mom if she is the right one it do not matter.
If you still like to contact my email and skype is kiwid@outlook.dk
Yours sincerely
Kim