we spend our lives waiting for something to happen that will give us permission to be well and happy. we are waiting to fall in love , waiting to find a better job, waiting to lose weight, waiting to get our certification, waiting to get a promotion, waiting to redo the kitchen, waiting to move into a new home,waiting,waiting,waiting. waiting is a state of mind that never ends until that moment when you realize now is the best moment! that does not have tomean that now is the happiest momentays the , but it is always the moment you are most alive