Today, China is learning from the West very much, drawing on its inner soul, and it is the way we can set up our own self-confidence and sense of superiority. But only other people share our culture, which can truly make our ritual spread over the world. A society that lacks of social etiquette is often an immature society. And a country less uniform standards of decorum, then the country is often discordant. To create a harmonious society, we must start to learn the etiquette. Only a clear understanding of cultural differences and Western rites will be both reasonable and effective integration, which can establish suitable etiquette and cultural systems for contemporary Chinese society, and can achieve the ideal harmonious society.