Hej My Dear Cholticha, sorry for my late answer, but this is the first time I've the possibility like this and sit down and tell You about my feeling out from Your mail below.
You see Cholticha, You know that i love You which means what it's stands: I Love You. There is no bullshit talk or other circules around, that's how it is.
When Reading Your mail i consider, right or wrong, that You want to stay and live in Bangkok, which I can understand because You have You family and friends there and it's a Lovely and fantastic city.
I not say that's a bad idea, more in the opposite way, but how have You been thinking around our Children Cholticha? Where they will be borned will be there Place for Citizens and where will they grow up? I've a feeling that You want them to be Thai and I also know that Children Always or at least almost are closest to their mother.