Pay attention to how you speak to yourself.
Are you putting yourself down? Shaming yourself or your body? Hiding your truth out of fear of rejection? The way you speak to yourself sends out a vibrational energy that lets other people know how to treat you.
If you want to be spoken to and treated like a love-worthy, admirable, passionate, sexy, funny woman, start speaking to yourself in these positive ways, too. You set the stage. (Yes, you are that powerful!)