I agree with you that it really takes a lifetime to know others, and in doing so we are bound to hurts, dissappinments, happiness, and love. In every experience we became a litter stronger, wiser, understanding, productive, or just be a better person. I'm sure no one really intends to hurt other people but the circumstances, situations, wrong decisions, can inflict hurt to others or to our ownself. We can always give the benefit of the doubt at first, but as you stated true color of people will be revealed as you spent time with each other. And we believe that meeting people have a purpose, why we cross each other paths. As you say we already passed the stage of playing around that can cause hurting the one another, that's why I'm also thankful of your honesty. I'm happy communicating with you