Hi Nok. How are you. Fancy your husband leaving you for a bad lady. l think you are probably better off without him. It was going to happen sooner or later. It is a shame about your daughter not liking men. Perhaps one day she will get confidence enough to go out with a man if she finds the right one. New Zealand is very much like Australia but not as hot. The laws are very similar and we are only a couple of hours away by plane. I have just about finished my christmas shopping for the children and then I have to do the worst part and that is all the wrapping and make sure the right child gets the right presents. Will have to buy some more paper tomorrow as I have run out. Went to work today but came home early and did a load of washing and some wrapping until I ran out of paper. I'm still trying to get my money back but don't think I can. Might look at getting some help over there. Either that wait until I come back next year.