sexuality is "the entire range of feelings and behaviours which human beings have and use as embodied persons in the world, expressing relationship to themselves and others through look, touch, word and action" (p. 9). Although sexual vitality is manifested through certain organs and is dependent on hormones, sexuality is much more than organs and glands, or what we do with our genitals. It encompasses so much more of who we are, how we understand ourselves as male or female (gender), how we live and relate (relationships), how we experience and express attraction and affection (eros).