hank you for your writing. We will see if I can come in November to visit you.
In the following messages I want to write you more about me, so that you will get a better picture of me.
I have 5 brothers and 2 sisters and I am the seventh born child. We are all born year by year by year. I will turn 55 years old in December and my youngest brother 54 years only 5 days later. My oldest sister now is 61 years old. 5 of my brothers and sisters are married and I have 14 nieces and nephews. Two of them married lately and both couples have already a baby.
I grew up in a big and friendly family on the country side. We were not poor but also not rich. When I was 10 years old my parents send me to a catholic boarding school with only boys. There I lived and went to school for 6 years. For the last 3 years of my school career I came back home and went to a school, where we were only 8 boys among 80 girls. I experienced the total opposite of how it was in the boarding school.
Then I went to study for 6 years architecture. During that time I lived on my own or in apartments with other students.
After the study I worked hard for 2 years in different offices to make first experiences and to save money. My big desire was to travel around the world. And my long journey started when I was about your age. I wanted to travel for 1 year but at the end I was away for 2,5 years. It was a wonderful time in which I also visited your beautiful country for 3 months. I loved the culture, as an architect the budism buildings an the beautiful beaches with palm tries. Also I learned about the kindness of the asian people. I traved at that time together with a britsh girl and we saw already the white tourists who had a thai girl with them almost as servants for everything. I didn´t like to see that at all.
When I came back home I started working as an architect but always went travelling overseas as well. I lived a different live to many germans who save money to build a house and found a family. I spend a lot of money in travelling and have seen many beautiful countries. In the year 2000 I met a wonderful woman, with whom I lived together for 13 years. You may asked why we didn´t marry but to get married is not so important in Europe anymore. People live together as couples but aren´t married.
Only 2,5 years ago my girlfriend left me. That came after I suffered a serious "burnout" 2 years previous. A burnout can happen when a person works very many hours for a long period and gets totally exhausted. I came to that stage 6 years ago. I was not able to work as an architect anymore because it stessed me to much.
When my long term girlfriend left me and I decided that I didn´t want to work as a normal architect anymore I stet up my live totally new and went to Curacao. Have you looked in a world map where this little island of Curacao is?
I think I am a nice and warm herded person and a gentle man. I am looking for harmony in life. I have had three girlfriends in my life and never was infiel. But I don´t have a house and started my life new on this island.
I want you to know all this so that you get a better picture of me. I will keep on writing about myself and my life the next days. I want you to know what you can expect from me. Material wise it is not so much now, but as a man and companion for life I can offer good values.
So, I will stop for today and I am looking forward to read from you again.
Have a successful day, Thomas