There are things that you don't know ...
I had much trouble to sell my machine and had to give money back to the people who purchased it. I thought that they were friends but they were not and I was very shocked. As you know I also try to sell my office but it is VERY difficult. If I manage to do that, no problem, I will have enough money.
You should also think a little bit more at the situation ... When you are here, you have NOTHiNG to pay. Compare your situation with the one of your sister! Did she ever go to the Netherlands? Never! And I am not sure at all that she will go there one time!
Thai culture is not Western culture and you come in Belgium not in Thailand!
As I told you many times, be a bit patient!!!!!
This is a VERY difficult time for me and I want you to be WITH me and not against me!