I'm 31 years old, and while I wasn't officially married, I was with a woman for over 6 years and raised 3 children. We never married, but were just like husband and wife--it ended very badly, she was a terrible woman that had no respect for me and even physically abused me, especially since I refused to ever hurt her/hit her back, because I don't believe in it. She ruined my life, and now I am in search of the right woman for me that has kindness, respect,, and love in her heart. What do you like/look for in a man?