Preparation is the third stage of the Transtheoretical Model of Behavioral Change, or stages of change. During this stage, the addict realizes his behavior is problematic and is planning to make change in the next month. He is likely making small changes like cutting back. The addict is also gathering information in preparation for quitting. Sometimes, this means checking on insurance coverage for drug treatment or speaking to an addictions counselor about getting treatment. Friends, family and counselors can help the addict in this stage with a few strategies.
Encourage the addict to write down his goal and post it somewhere he will see it often. Additionally, help him to tell others that will be supportive of his goal. Family and friends are ideal, but AA and NA meetings are also helpful and offer the addict a "white chip" as a reminder.
Help the addict create a plan to overcome his addiction. This plan can include formal or informal support groups, professional treatment programs or self help programs. It is also helpful to create a backup plan, in case the first options fall through.
Help the addict make a list of coping mechanisms he can use once he quits using. Some examples include writing in a journal, working out or taking a hot shower. Make a list of motivational sayings and give them to the addict. You can make it into a sentimental sort of gift by putting the list on fancy paper and decorating it, or writing the list on the back of a picture of you and the addict having fun without drugs.
The preparation stage usually only lasts about 30 days, but it is important that the addict keeps forward momentum throughout the stage. Information and support are key to helping the addict move into the action stage of change.