Argue win customers, then customers gone
argue wins colleagues, then the unity of team was broken
argue wins the boss, then no progress in the work
argue win relative win of kinship, then brothers gone
Argue to win friends, then friends can less (decrease)
argue wins lover, then love is lessen
argue to win who = win is lost, to win a fight against yourself.
Get oneself strong growth, stable, even as the true winner.