men and women share the exact same view of a best friend-a person who is always there for you. your best friend is someone you can depend to shatr your happiness, suffer though worries or lessen your sorrow. as one man put it. "to me a best friend is somebody that you call if you are on the expressway and get a flat tire at 3.00 am. and you have been told it is four hours untll a ow truck can be sent. your friend says "tell me exactly where you are i will come and get you