Hi Fhun,
Your former husband was a bad guy.
But not all men are like that.
Do not let deter from a bad experience.
Sometime you will find a man fits to you and which you can love.
You just have to believe in it.
Otherwise you yourself prevent this development.
People call this : Self-fulfilling prophecy.
In other words:
If you look at the life positively, the life will give a positive answer to you.
Please think about these things in peace and quiet.
Please give me no reason to be worried about you.
Take care