About Tom I am always missing and love him as you know .But I think that he quite be in privacy time very much with himself and he chooses for being alone and freedom to independent life no one control him more than staying beside me but I only stay away and keep looking him just let him be like that even sometimes care about and concerning him .Neverthereless ,I respect for all decisions from him . Finally,I do want to keep our relation to continue more and more in better way with you .