Do guys really care about what clothes you wear and how you look? I mean, I know that guys don’t want to look at someone who looks like a slob and doesn’t look presentable, but do they care if you wear just t-shirts and jeans, or if you wear really nice outfits like a pretty blouse and skirt? I fall more into the jeans and t-shirt category. I still put time and effort into how I look, but I wear casual clothes. Is this a turn-off?
Nearly all guys care about how you look, BUT they are all looking for different styles and looks. Not every guy is into girls who wear jeans and a t-shirt, nor are all guys looking for a girl who sports only the latest fashion trends. The reality is, the way you dress is likely to attract a similarly minded type of guy. If you wear tie-dyes and Birkenstocks, you’ll probably be going on dates to Badfish shows and hookah bars, as your clothing is a beacon to the world about who you are in many senses. It’s sort of like that “you get back what you put into the world” quote – but with clothing.
Think about your favorite TV show. Chances are the female leads all have their own style and attract a different type of guy. Those styles usually reflect their individual personalities, and while they may have similar interests, style is what separates people into their own world. From dresses and heels to chain wallets and Doc Martens, it’s all about expressing a certain part of who you are, and that’s one of the biggest clues guys can get in terms of if you’ll click.
You need to ask yourself if you want a guy who is always up on the latest fashions and only wants to date girls who do the same. It’s perfectly ok if your answer is “yes,” but know that regardless of what style you choose, it will both attract and turn off different groups of guys. Also, your image and clothing choices will likely change over time, so don’t be scared that you’re suddenly wearing new things as your tastes change.
This leads us to the only real choice to make in terms of clothing: wear what makes YOU feel confident and comfortable!
Whether or not a certain guy digs what you’re wearing is secondary to how you feel in those clothes, and if you’re rocking things that make you feel great on the inside, that will come across in how you carry yourself on the outside. Few things look better on people than confidence, so be proud of whatever your style is, and remember what Meghan Trainor said: “every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top.”
Read more: http://www.gurl.com/2014/10/09/do-guys-really-care-about-what-you-wear-advice/#ixzz3VHlabl00