Dad still had a lot of hair. it was only a bit thin on the stop of his head.And he did it differently now, it showed that he was getting better after Mum's death.AS first he didn't want to do anything.Greg watched him in those first weeks.Dad got up ,read the newspaper, cooked meals,went to work but he was dead inside.when he was at work, Dad was stephen Barber the optician.perhaps there he smiled and talkes and was more like a living person.But he wasn't like that at home.